When my cousin died all of the sudden without warning about seven years ago just after we started reconnecting, I listened to this song a lot.

Some say because it’s over
we should be sad, but that’s not true
‘cause death may seem something nasty
but it belongs to me and you

Don’t try to avoid your destiny
Accept this kiss with dignity
In this embrace you’ll find relief
Get rid of all your grief

Some say because it’s over, we should be…
Some say because it’s over, we should be…
Some say because it’s over, we should be…
Some say because it’s over, we should be free!

I think I want this song played at my funeral.